Flattery Will Get You
Have you ever tried to soften a difficult conversation by complimenting the person first? It is a common personnel management tactic to do exactly that. I had a friend who used the Thanksgiving Dinner analogy. Rather than start with the complaint about the burnt, dry stuffing, you should first mention how lovely the table looked, acknowledge how hard the cook worked, remark about how delicious the gravy was, and then drop the bomb about the stuffing. It’s known as “buttering someone up.”
Softening the blow when a difficult topic has to be discussed can be appropriate, but flattering someone just to deflect attention away from your real agenda is not. That is just straight up deception. Such is the case in today’s passage where the Pharisees tried to trap Jesus into saying something that would get him in trouble with the government. See how they first try to praise him with their empty, hollow words:
Matthew 22 (The Message)
15-17 That’s when the Pharisees plotted a way to trap him into saying something damaging. They sent their disciples, with a few of Herod’s followers mixed in, to ask, “Teacher, we know you have integrity, teach the way of God accurately, are indifferent to popular opinion, and don’t pander to your students. So tell us honestly: Is it right to pay taxes to Caesar or not?”
Of course Jesus would not fall for that. It was the first time this group had ever said anything positive about his ministry and he instantly knew something was up. He didn’t fall for it, and neither should we when our enemy is trying to get us to say something controversial.
18-19 Jesus knew they were up to no good. He said, “Why are you playing these games with me? Why are you trying to trap me? Do you have a coin? Let me see it.” They handed him a silver piece.
The subject of their inquiry was tithing. In Jewish tradition, one tenth of one’s income was to be presented to the Lord. These men are trying to set up an either/or scenario, but Jesus is not playing.
20 “This engraving—who does it look like? And whose name is on it?”
21 They said, “Caesar.”
“Then give Caesar what is his and give God what is his.”
Yes, we have to pay taxes. That is a given in life. But if we follow Scripture, we also have to offer God ten percent of what remains, right off the top. The Pharisees weren’t pleased to hear this.
22 The Pharisees were speechless. They went off shaking their heads.
The Scripture challenges us to consider our own giving. Truly everything we have comes from God. Everything we have belongs to God. Jesus is clear when he says, “Give God what is his.” Do you do that? Do you need to catch up? Jesus was all in for us. Can we be all in for him?
Taxes and tithing aren’t an either/or situation. This is a both/and thing. May we be faithful to the word.

All In by Michelle Robertson

