Live Oaks

Live oaks are common trees in the Outer Banks of North Carolina. Their majestic crowns can spread to over 150 feet and they provide shelter and food for many animals, including birds, wild turkeys, squirrels, black bears, and deer. Found primarily in the south, live oaks grow well in salty soils and in the shade. My community of Colington Harbour is surrounded by these beautiful trees, some of which are hundreds of years old. For centuries, live oaks were the preferred timber for shipbuilding due to their incredibly strong wood. In fact, the U.S.S. Constitution was constructed with live oak timber and earned the nickname “Old Ironsides” when her hull survived repeated canon fire in the war of 1812. There is a stunning live oak at the end of my street. The sun sets behind it and people walk down the street in the evening every day to take in the beautiful scene.

Our beautiful psalm today speaks of a tree planted by the streams of water. This tree bears fruit and its leaves don’t fade. The psalmist uses this word-picture to encourage us to choose a path of righteousness that would make us like these trees. This path is one of reading, reciting, and meditating on God’s word.

Psalm 1 (Common English Bible)

1 The truly happy person
    doesn’t follow wicked advice,
    doesn’t stand on the road of sinners,
    and doesn’t sit with the disrespectful.
Instead of doing those things,
    these persons love the Lord’s Instruction,
    and they recite God’s Instruction day and night!
They are like a tree replanted by streams of water,
    which bears fruit at just the right time
    and whose leaves don’t fade.
        Whatever they do succeeds.

By contrast, we also can choose the path of the wicked. This path results in dust that the wind simply blows away. The psalmist reminds us that sinners cannot enter the assembly of the righteous. This path has no joy or hope and ends in destruction.

That’s not true for the wicked!
    They are like dust that the wind blows away.
And that’s why the wicked will have no standing in the court of justice—
    neither will sinners
    in the assembly of the righteous.
The Lord is intimately acquainted
    with the way of the righteous,
    but the way of the wicked is destroyed.

Verse 1 offers a warning about the progression of sin. Notice the movement from walk to stand to sit. We can imagine the path that temptation takes in this verse. When we are tempted we walk toward something we should not have, stand for a moment of decision, and then choose to sit into it. The righteous don’t do this. They remain truly happy by setting healthy boundaries around themselves lest they fall into temptation.

If you think about it, we have that choice to make every day. We can refuse to associate with the wicked and disrespectful and choose to follow God’s instructions. We can read and meditate on God’s word. The psalmist assures us that this will result in happiness and success.

I think I would prefer to be a live oak, planted by the waters rather than dust. How about you?

Live Oak on the Sound

The Disrespectful

When did it become acceptable to be so disrespectful?

Regardless of what side you take on a political or social issue, you will find loud statements of disrespect on both sides. Name calling, snide remarks, hate words, slander…all these are weapons in the war of words which society fully engages in day after day. Social media is very anti-social. News is not so much newsworthy as it is opinionated, and those who are privileged with opinion platforms are loud, inappropriately angry, and seethe with disrespect.

What does this do to us as we listen? Do you walk away from these encounters discouraged, defeated, detached, and with your blood pressure elevated? Me, too.

In our Psalm today we are reminded that happiness can’t be found among the disrespectful.

Psalm 1 (Common English Bible)

The truly happy person
    doesn’t follow wicked advice,
    doesn’t stand on the road of sinners,
    and doesn’t sit with the disrespectful.
Instead of doing those things,
    these persons love the Lord’s Instruction,
    and they recite God’s Instruction day and night!
They are like a tree replanted by streams of water,
    which bears fruit at just the right time
    and whose leaves don’t fade.
        Whatever they do succeeds.

I have a friend who initially gave up social media for Lent and then decided to stay off due to the constant disrespect he experienced when he expressed his political beliefs. He discovered that his “friends” quickly went on the attack, even if he was trying to respectfully argue a point. I have another friend who is a retired police officer who suffers daily from what he reads on the internet.

I think it is important to remember that the celebrity “news” people and your so-called “friends” on social media platforms are merely dust that blows away. The trick is to not let it get in your eyes as it blows past you. We need to keep clear eyes focused solely on the Lord’s instruction. That helps us to be like trees that are planted by the water that will bear fruit for the kingdom if we focus on keeping the righteous things in the foreground.

That’s not true for the wicked!
    They are like dust that the wind blows away.
And that’s why the wicked will have no standing in the court of justice—
    neither will sinners
    in the assembly of the righteous.
The Lord is intimately acquainted
    with the way of the righteous,
    but the way of the wicked is destroyed.

God blesses the righteous with happiness and destroys the disrespectful.

Perhaps we should all closely monitor the things we engage in that are making us unhappy. My guess is that spending less time engaging with angry people will result in feeling more peaceful. Reading God’s word day and night will result in an intimacy with him that brings calm to our hearts.

And thank you so much for reading At Water’s Edge! May you find peace, hope, and contentment today as you carry his word in your heart.

Come and Sit