How Can I, Without Some Help?

Name something that is easier to do with help. My mind goes to things like setting up tables and chairs, wallpapering a room, opening a pickle jar, or washing the car. Our grandmothers used to say that “many hands make light work,” and it is true. Not only can you work faster and more efficiently with help, but you will also probably enjoy having company for the task. Well, except for wallpapering. There is no way for two people to enjoy wallpapering.

Then there is another kind of help which is essential because you are completely incapable of doing the thing yourself. I am grateful for lawyers, financial advisors, and car repairmen for the work they have done for me in areas where I am completely unequipped. Not to mention wallpaper hangers.

In our lectionary passage today, we see a beautiful example of help coming along at just the right time. Take note of Philip’s approach to a stranger as he obediently listens to the leading of the Holy Spirit:

Acts 8 (Common English Bible)

26-28 Later God’s angel spoke to Philip: “At noon today I want you to walk over to that desolate road that goes from Jerusalem down to Gaza.” He got up and went. He met an Ethiopian eunuch coming down the road. The eunuch had been on a pilgrimage to Jerusalem and was returning to Ethiopia, where he was minister in charge of all the finances of Candace, queen of the Ethiopians. He was riding in a chariot and reading the prophet Isaiah.

29-30 The Spirit told Philip, “Climb into the chariot.” Running up alongside, Philip heard the eunuch reading Isaiah and asked, “Do you understand what you’re reading?”

The image of Philip happily running alongside the chariot of a very important diplomat is a charming picture to me. I love the innocence of that moment. It’s somewhat akin to a new puppy running out the front door to greet you when you come home from work.

31-33 He answered, “How can I without some help?” and invited Philip into the chariot with him.

Here is the message for us today. How can the unknowing people around us understand the impact of the gift of salvation if nobody happily comes alongside of them to explain it? How can new believers understand if nobody explains things?

The passage he was reading was this:

As a sheep led to slaughter,
    and quiet as a lamb being sheared,
He was silent, saying nothing.
    He was mocked and put down, never got a fair trial.
But who now can count his kin
    since he’s been taken from the earth?

34-35 The eunuch said, “Tell me, who is the prophet talking about: himself or some other?” Philip grabbed his chance. Using this passage as his text, he preached Jesus to him.

How many times do you think you’ve had that same chance to preach Jesus to someone but missed it? Sometimes we are tired, distracted, or too busy to realize someone needs help understanding and we miss being Philip to someone.

And then it gets better:

36-39 As they continued down the road, they came to a stream of water. The eunuch said, “Here’s water. Why can’t I be baptized?” He ordered the chariot to stop. They both went down to the water, and Philip baptized him on the spot. When they came up out of the water, the Spirit of God suddenly took Philip off, and that was the last the eunuch saw of him. But he didn’t mind. He had what he’d come for and went on down the road as happy as he could be.

The offer of help, the preaching moment it provided, and the companionship they established resulted in Philip baptizing the man on the spot. And after Philip was taken away, the man went down the road “as happy as he could be”.

Listen, here’s the thing. There is a child in your neighborhood who doesn’t understand. There is a teenager in your church who needs your help to sort things out. There are people in the homeless shelters and the addiction centers who would benefit from your companionship. Everyone, at some point, just needs a helper to come alongside and offer their assistance. You might even know someone who needs some wallpapering done. Are you willing?

Be a Philip to someone today.

Isaiah’s Fountain by Kathy Schumacher

The Helpers

I cannot imagine going through life without helpers. I am blessed to be married to a man who knows how to fix things, how to cook amazing dinners, and he always remembers where I left my shoes. Not everyone is so lucky … after all, he’s married to me.

There is an interconnectedness of life that was intentional in God’s design. We were made to live in community. God’s plan was for harmony in his creation, so when discord breaks out, it truly grieves him. We are given to one another in order to help, support, build up, and encourage. Families, groups, churches, sports teams, institutions…every basic unit of life functions better when acceptance is given, help is available, individuals are lifted up by the group, and the strong look out for the weak. None of us is meant to go it alone. This is why twelve step groups like AA, NA, and Al Anon are so successful.

Everyone needs a helper.

Our need for others was built into us from the very beginning:

Genesis 2 (New International Version)

18 The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”

19 Now the Lord God had formed out of the ground all the wild animals and all the birds in the sky. He brought them to the man to see what he would name them; and whatever the man called each living creature, that was its name. 20 So the man gave names to all the livestock, the birds in the sky and all the wild animals.

But for Adam no suitable helper was found. 21 So the Lord God caused the man to fall into a deep sleep; and while he was sleeping, he took one of the man’s ribs and then closed up the place with flesh. 22 Then the Lord God made a woman from the rib he had taken out of the man, and he brought her to the man.

Is God telling you to offer help to someone today? Or has he shown you that you need to reach out to a friend and ask for help? This is a game where we all take turns. Sometimes you give help, and sometimes you need help. When we participate in a community of helpers, we experience the genius and the blessing of God’s creation.

A friend has recently been going through a very hard time and she has been emailing me through the process. I can see in her emails that the act of talking through things and then listening to my supportive responses is helping her. What she may not know is that it is helping me, too. To come alongside someone in a challenging life-moment is a blessing that is shared. As I see her making good decisions and moving on with her life, I am relieved to know that my friend is going to be okay. When we both look back at this time, we will be able to celebrate how much stronger our friendship became through this adversity. A burden shared is a burden halved.

And it’s really not that hard to be someone’s helper. I sent my friend a meme that said “Trust your hard work. It’s unlocking doors you can’t see yet.” A few weeks later she sent me a picture of her work computer. She had printed out the meme and taped it to her monitor as a daily reminder. It took me less than a minute to send it to her, and it is giving her encouragement every day. God works through the helpers!

Sometimes all a person needs is a kind text, a quick phone call, a casserole to be delivered, or a lovely card to be sent. You know how it feels to be on the receiving end of such kindness … so let us be about helping someone today.

God said it is not good for us to be alone. Be somebody’s somebody today.

The Birds in the Sky by Michelle Robertson