A Taste of Heaven
I once performed a wedding for a bride who was on her seventh marriage. I know this to be true, as the wedding license that pastors sign indicate the number (if any) of previous marriages. Now lest we be too judgmental, her first marriage was when she was in her late teens, when few of us understand the consequences of choices made in the heat of the moment at such a young age. Two of her marriages ended when those husbands passed away, so there’s that. Still, it was a bit like officiating an Erica Kane wedding, but I am happy to say that they are still together, and she has found her happily ever after.
Jesus once encountered a question about multiple marriages and the resurrection. It came from a group known as the Sadducees, who were a conservative elite group of Jews who only accepted the first five books of the Torah as the authentic word of God. If you remember your Bible history, that meant that they pretty much were limited to the creation stories, Abraham and his many sons, Moses and the exodus, and a whole lot of Law. They did not believe in the resurrection. This made the Sadducees sad, you see. (Sorry for that. I just wanna be a sheep.)
Luke 20 (New Revised Standard Version)
27 Some Sadducees, those who say there is no resurrection, came to him 28 and asked him a question: “Teacher, Moses wrote for us that if a man’s brother dies leaving a wife but no children, the man shall marry the widow and raise up children for his brother.29 Now there were seven brothers; the first married a woman and died childless; 30 then the second 31 and the third married her, and so in the same way all seven died childless. 32 Finally the woman also died. 33 In the resurrection, therefore, whose wife will the woman be? For the seven had married her.”
You can see that for folks to ask such a question when they didn’t believe in the resurrection meant they were hoping to trap or embarrass Jesus. The fact that the question was framed in the extreme of seven marriages was meant almost as a taunt. Of course that can happen (as I discovered), but it truly is a rare thing.
34 Jesus said to them, “Those who belong to this age marry and are given in marriage, 35 but those who are considered worthy of a place in that age and in the resurrection from the dead neither marry nor are given in marriage. 36 Indeed, they cannot die anymore, because they are like angels and are children of God, being children of the resurrection. 37 And the fact that the dead are raised Moses himself showed, in the story about the bush, where he speaks of the Lord as the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. 38 Now he is God not of the dead but of the living, for to him all of them are alive.”
There is much to unpack here. Resurrection does not include marriage for the obvious reason that there will be no reason to procreate, as eternal life is just that: eternal. We will become “like angels” but we know from other Scriptures that we will be higher than the angels. (1 Corinthians 6:3.) It will be a true community of love, and Jesus pointed out that Moses’ own testimony was that the Lord IS the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, ascribing them to be part of the living and not the dead. Such a clever piece of oratory, as the Sadducees were very attached to these Old Testament figures. Jesus spoke right into their belief system and spoke truth.
If you are happily married on earth, this may sadden you. On the other hand, if your marriage is filled with strife, a community of love will be just what you need. In any case, life in heaven will truly be nothing like life on earth.
And that is very good news indeed.

A Taste of Heaven

