Christian daily devotionals

Making Up is Hard to Do

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Have you ever had a silly disagreement that grew so large, you forgot what the initial argument was even about? The practice of holding a grudge can take on a life of its own. When fractures in a relationship go on for weeks/months/years, the resulting estrangement is often hard to reverse. Tragically, the beginning of the end is sometimes a simple misunderstanding that cannot ever be untangled. Sometimes the disagreement wasn’t even your fault or responsibility. In my denomination, many people are severing friendships over polity issues that have nothing to do with personal relationships. A line has been drawn and through no fault of your own, you suddenly find that your friend has blocked you on Facebook and won’t respond to emails simply because you are on the other side of that line. It happens every day over politics, politicians, vaccines, the climate crisis, the border conundrum … people are falling out over issues that have nothing to do with their relationships. I bet it has happened to you, too.

Paul is very clear about what we are to do in these cases. He challenges us to iron out our differences and make up.

Philippians 4 (The Message)

4 My dear, dear friends! I love you so much. I do want the very best for you. You make me feel such joy, fill me with such pride. Don’t waver. Stay on track, steady in God.

2 I urge Euodia and Syntyche to iron out their differences and make up. God doesn’t want his children holding grudges.

3 And, oh, yes, Syzygus, since you’re right there to help them work things out, do your best with them. These women worked for the Message hand in hand with Clement and me, and with the other veterans—worked as hard as any of us. Remember, their names are also in the Book of Life.

God doesn’t want his children holding grudges. Does that feel like a punch in the gut? Think for a moment about someone you have walked away from over a small issue. Is it time to make up?

4-5 Celebrate God all day, every day. I mean, revel in him! Make it as clear as you can to all you meet that you’re on their side, working with them and not against them. Help them see that the Master is about to arrive. He could show up any minute!

6-7 Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.

A life focused on God is a sure remedy for those times when we are focused on our anger and resentment. Paul’s sense of urgency about the coming of Christ put things into perspective. When it came to disputes, his perspective was “ain’t nobody got time for that!” And he’s right. Do you really have time to keep nursing your grudge, or is it time to let it go?

8-9 Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies.

Allowing God to work us into his most excellent harmonies won’t happen until we throw down our boxing gloves and pick up things that are true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, and gracious. Sprinkle in a large measure of forgiveness over past hurts and you are on your way. When we fill our minds with things to praise, God is able to work everything together. Thanks be to God!

Fill Your Mind with Beauty by Michelle Robertson

A Shade From the Heat

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I had the pleasure of having a conversation with a trusted and valued friend where the subject of “plans made and suddenly changed” came up. We acknowledged the need for grieving when that happens, and I found her comments to be both wise and helpful. Even when you are handling the change with patience and grace, it is still a good and necessary thing to recognize that unexpected change can take a toll on your heart. I think when we have come out the other side of these events and are mostly “unscathed,” we want to minimize or dismiss the impact that the loss of something that we had planned and looked forward to can have on us. This is not a healthy response. It is good to acknowledge the disruption, mourn over it, work through the grief of that unexpected change, and then seek closure. It is also good to count the blessings we see even in the midst of the trial.

I want to invite you to think about a situation or time when you felt the extreme heat of disappointment, an unfulfilled dream, a sudden illness, the end of a relationship, or a life-changing loss. To liken those events to being engulfed in extreme heat should give you a sense of what Isaiah was writing about in Isaiah 25. He is writing about the unexpected change that came over Israel when the surrounding nations assaulted them and drove his people out. Isaiah wisely acknowledged this tragedy, and then focuses our attention to the “plans formed of old” and praises God for the deliverance that will eventually come.

Isaiah 25 (New Revised Standard Version)

O Lord, you are my God;
    I will exalt you; I will praise your name,
for you have done wonderful things,
    plans formed of old, faithful and sure.
2 For you have made the city a heap,
    the fortified city a ruin;
the palace of foreigners is a city no more;
    it will never be rebuilt.
3 Therefore strong peoples will glorify you;
    cities of ruthless nations will fear you.

Note that Isaiah began this writing with words of praise and thanksgiving. The Assyrians had already overtaken the Northern Kingdom and Isaiah’s role as prophet was to warn of the time when the Babylonians would seize Jerusalem. It was a time of great tribulation and a forecast of the Great Tribulation that will come at the end of time. If you are in a tribulation or remembering a time of great trouble, you will find instructions here on how to handle your situation. The first step is to praise. Isaiah said, “I will exalt you,” a reminder that worshipping God in the storm is a choice we make. Will you exalt God in your disappointment?

4 For you have been a refuge to the poor,
    a refuge to the needy in their distress,
    a shelter from the rainstorm and a shade from the heat.
When the blast of the ruthless was like a winter rainstorm,
5     the noise of foreigners like heat in a dry place,
you subdued the heat with the shade of clouds;
    the song of the ruthless was stilled.

Even on our worst days, God is worthy to be praised. He offers refuge to the needy and provides shelter in bad times. He fights our battles for us and never leaves our side.

6 On this mountain the Lord of hosts will make for all peoples
    a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wines,
    of rich food filled with marrow, of well-aged wines strained clear.

Christian readers will feel an immediate pull toward seeing this next section as a description of the Feast of the Lamb that Revelation talks about:

“for the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd,
    and he will guide them to springs of the water of life,
and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.” Revelation 7:17

7 And he will destroy on this mountain
    the shroud that is cast over all peoples,
    the covering that is spread over all nations;
8     he will swallow up death forever.
Then the Lord God will wipe away the tears from all faces,
    and the disgrace of his people he will take away from all the earth,
    for the Lord has spoken.

All of our disappointments will be swallowed up, for the Lord has spoken. In the end, isn’t that the only thing that really matters?

9 It will be said on that day,
    “See, this is our God; we have waited for him, so that he might save us.
    This is the Lord for whom we have waited;
    let us be glad and rejoice in his salvation.”

Having this conversation with my friend provided a shade from the heat. Who in your life is in a predicament that burns? Can you offer comfort just by listening? God is on our side in all times of distress, and we can offer hope to others by reminding them of that very thing. Reach out to someone today and give them a listening ear. You will be blessed to be a blessing.

Let us be glad and rejoice!

Springs of the Water of Life by Kathy Schumacher

The Seeming Absurdity of God

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If you have ever raised a teenager, you may have gone through a period when said teenager decided that you know absolutely nothing. When we parent our toddlers and elementary-age children, we are the authority on everything. Then something strange happens as they enter Middle School … suddenly our parental brains empty of every last bit of knowledge as theirs fill up with all kinds of great wisdom. Things we say to them at this point come off as sheer silliness and we are downright stupid in their eyes.

Luckily they grow out of that somewhere around the first year of college, when we miraculously become smart again.

Such is the case today in Paul’s letter to the church in Corinth. He writes to them about the way the truth of Jesus Christ is perceived by its critics:

1 Corinthians 1 (The Message)

18-21 The Message that points to Christ on the Cross seems like sheer silliness to those hellbent on destruction, but for those on the way of salvation it makes perfect sense. This is the way God works, and most powerfully as it turns out. It’s written,

I’ll turn conventional wisdom on its head,
I’ll expose so-called experts as shams.

So where can you find someone truly wise, truly educated, truly intelligent in this day and age? Hasn’t God exposed it all as pretentious nonsense? Since the world in all its fancy wisdom never had a clue when it came to knowing God, God in his wisdom took delight in using what the world considered stupid—preaching, of all things!—to bring those who trust him into the way of salvation.

He was addressing the culture of his time over 2,000 years ago, but the same teaching applies to today. The cross indeed is foolishness to those who have not received it. Knowing Jesus, it turns out, is a spiritual knowledge born of experience rather than a scholarly, intellectual pursuit. John Wesley, a well-educated Anglican priest, discovered this on a ship during a turbulent sea crossing. He observed the Moravian travelers calmly praying and singing hymns rather than panicking. Later, he sat down to study Romans and he wrote in his journal that he felt his heart “strongly warmed.” These two events helped him move his faith from head knowledge to heart knowledge. You can read all you want to about Christ, but until you accept him as Savior and Lord, you will never really know him.

22-25 While Jews clamor for miraculous demonstrations and Greeks go in for philosophical wisdom, we go right on proclaiming Christ, the Crucified. Jews treat this like an anti-miracle—and Greeks pass it off as absurd. But to us who are personally called by God himself—both Jews and Greeks—Christ is God’s ultimate miracle and wisdom all wrapped up in one. Human wisdom is so cheap, so impotent, next to the seeming absurdity of God. Human strength can’t begin to compete with God’s “weakness.”

Is today the day when you will accept Christ as your Lord and Savior? Are you being called to humble yourself in his sight and receive him as your personal redeemer? If you’ve been thinking about this for a while but haven’t experienced it yet, today is your day. You are one prayer away from salvation.

Each one of us who has already made this commitment is personally called by God himself to tell others about Christ, God’s “ultimate miracle and wisdom all wrapped up in one.” The way to do that is to tell your personal story. How do you know Jesus? Go and tell. You never know what seeds you will sow.

Fall Beauty by Kathy Schumacher

From Sunrise to Sunset

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If you’ve been reading my devotionals for a while, I’m sure you are as enraptured as I am with the photography of Michelle Robertson. Michelle is a friend and a member of my congregation who works in one of our local restaurants. She is not a professional photographer, and I bet that surprises you. Michelle is a faithful sunrise and sunset watcher and used to take pictures just with her cell phone. She had so many people respond to her glorious photos, she decided to invest in a “real camera.” It is undoubtable that Michelle has a gift for photography. You can see it in the way she naturally frames a great shot. Aren’t we all blessed by her work? And I am blessed that I don’t have to get up at the crack of dawn for great photos!

This psalm is a tribute to people who serve the Lord with such faithfulness, like Michelle does. She is up and out of her house every morning in all kinds of weather to capture such beauty, and she has been generous from the very beginning to allow her work to accompany my words. If you go back to my very first devotional, you will see that the picture is one of Michelle’s sunrises.

Psalm 113 (Common English Bible)

 Praise the Lord!
    You who serve the Lord—praise!
    Praise the Lord’s name!
2 Let the Lord’s name be blessed
    from now until forever from now!
3 From sunrise to sunset,
    let the Lord’s name be praised!
4 The Lord is high over all the nations;
    God’s glory is higher than the skies!

Have you ever gone outside for sunrise or sunset just to look at the sky? We get some incredible sunsets on Colington Island, where I live, where the entire sky can suddenly become pink, orange, or red. But you have to stop what you’re doing and leave your house to fully see God’s majesty.

5 Who could possibly compare to the Lord our God?
    God rules from on high;
6     he has to come down to even see heaven and earth!

This next part is a tribute to the work God does on behalf of the people. As you read it, realize that it is our hands, feet, money, time, and talent that God uses to lift up the poor and the needy. Like Michelle’s camera, we are instruments that work in concert with God to pull mercy and grace into focus for all God’s children.
7 God lifts up the poor from the dirt
    and raises up the needy from the garbage pile
8         to seat them with leaders—
        with the leaders of his own people!

Finally, this last verse is nothing short of delightful. The psalmist says that God “nests” mothers with their children … once barren ones at that! It makes me wonder … what thing in your life is God ready to nest in you? What are you lacking that God can provide? Is it peace? Hope? Stability? Joy? We are invited to see God as a loving provider who is ready and able to meet even our most impossible need:
9     God nests the once barren woman at home—
        now a joyful mother with children!

Praise the Lord!

Praise the Lord indeed!

The Sun Also Rises by Michelle Robertson

I Just Wanna Be a Sheep

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Matthew 24 and 25 are filled with apocalyptic images and language. Jesus describes what will happen in the end times and it isn’t pretty. Earthquakes, wars, great suffering, famines … it is the stuff of nightmares. False Christs will rise up and many will fall away from their love for the Lord. The sun, moon, and stars will cease to shine, and a great darkness will come over the earth. It will be horrible.

As he is teaching the people how to prepare for this, he tells them how the sheep and goats will be separated:

Matthew 25 (Common English Bible)

31 “Now when the Human One comes in his majesty and all his angels are with him, he will sit on his majestic throne. 32 All the nations will be gathered in front of him. He will separate them from each other, just as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats. 33 He will put the sheep on his right side. But the goats he will put on his left.

If you grew up thinking sheep were dumb and mild, you may not have considered that being a sheep would be a good thing. But there is one thing sheep do well: they follow the voice of the shepherd. They stay together in a flock and do the will of their master. They are obedient.

34 “Then the king will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who will receive good things from my Father. Inherit the kingdom that was prepared for you before the world began. 35 I was hungry and you gave me food to eat. I was thirsty and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger and you welcomed me. 36 I was naked and you gave me clothes to wear. I was sick and you took care of me. I was in prison and you visited me.’

The Good Shepherd is pretty straight forward about how to land on the right side of the separation at the end of days: we are called take care of people who can’t take care of themselves. The poor, the marginalized, the prisoners, those fleeing from disasters, the displaced, the homeless … the care of these strangers is the criteria by which we will be judged. Are you caring for the strangers?

37 “Then those who are righteous will reply to him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you a drink? 38 When did we see you as a stranger and welcome you, or naked and give you clothes to wear? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’

40 “Then the king will reply to them, ‘I assure you that when you have done it for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you have done it for me.’

This is why we should support missions, contribute to food pantries, do hospital and jail visitations, solve the border crisis, and work in homeless ministries. We will be judged by our caring for Jesus’ fragile children. What are you doing to help others? Go, and do it in the name of the Good Shepherd so that you may be counted among the sheep at the end of days.

The Sun Will Cease to Shine by Michelle Robertson

Promote the Promise

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What are the causes that you promote? Are you an animal rights supporter, an active member of your school’s PTO, an ardent football team fan, or someone who believes very strongly in a political position or person? If you watch for signs in your neighborhood, you can spot the things people promote. From flags to bumper stickers to social media posts, it is easy to determine who promotes what in your circle of influence.

I have always loved how Paul promoted Jesus with a laser-sharp focus. His entire existence was for the single cause of bringing the Good News of the messiah’s salvation, hope, healing, and resurrection to the world. He literally went throughout the known world with the message of the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus:

2 Timothy (Common English Bible)

1 From Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by God’s will, to promote the promise of life that is in Christ Jesus.

2 To Timothy, my dear child.

Grace, mercy, and peace from God the Father and Christ Jesus our Lord.

3 I’m grateful to God, whom I serve with a good conscience as my ancestors did. I constantly remember you in my prayers day and night. 4 When I remember your tears, I long to see you so that I can be filled with happiness.5 I’m reminded of your authentic faith, which first lived in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice. I’m sure that this faith is also inside you.6 Because of this, I’m reminding you to revive God’s gift that is in you through the laying on of my hands. 7 God didn’t give us a spirit that is timid but one that is powerful, loving, and self-controlled.

When you elect to share your love of Christ with others, you will need this spirit of power, love, and self-control that can only come from God. Not everyone wants to hear about Jesus. Not everyone wants to hear from you about your faith. I remember one such conversation decades ago when I attended my mother’s retirement dinner. She had served for 30 years as the school business administrator for a large high school, and a lovely banquet was held in her honor. I was invited to give the blessing. When I sat down, a brand new and very young assistant something-or-other said to me, “Are you really a minister?” I said yes and added that I was an ordained United Methodist minister, lest he think I was from some small, rogue denomination. “I don’t believe in women ministers,” he continued. “I think the Bible is very clear that women shouldn’t preach. After all, Jesus only chose men to be disciples.”

You can imagine the amount of self-control the Holy Spirit had to put on me in that moment. It seemed absurd to me that he started with “I don’t believe in women ministers” when one was sitting right next to him. Open your eyes, Dude! But God’s cooler head prevailed, and I focused on his last sentence. “So, I’m assuming that your pastor is a man,” I said. “Of course!” he replied. “And I’m assuming your pastor is a Jew,” I continued. He was shocked. “Well of course not! He’s a Baptist.” “Oh,” I continued. “I thought he must be a Jew, because Jesus only chose Jews to be disciples, so I figured that Biblical standard must be applied to your pastor as well.” He stuttered a bit and tried to bring up the old argument of women not speaking in church. I asked him if he knew who the very first preacher was, and he said he couldn’t name him.

His name was Mary, and she was the first one to preach the good news of the empty tomb on that first Easter morning.

People shouldn’t mess with me during the appetizers.

8 So don’t be ashamed of the testimony about the Lord or of me, his prisoner. Instead, share the suffering for the good news, depending on God’s power. 9 God is the one who saved and called us with a holy calling. This wasn’t based on what we have done, but it was based on his own purpose and grace that he gave us in Christ Jesus before time began.10 Now his grace is revealed through the appearance of our savior, Christ Jesus. He destroyed death and brought life and immortality into clear focus through the good news. 11 I was appointed a messenger, apostle, and teacher of this good news.

Let me be very clear about this: you, too have been appointed a messenger, apostle, and teacher of this good news. If you have accepted Christ as your savior, you are called to share it!

 12 This is also why I’m suffering the way I do, but I’m not ashamed. I know the one in whom I’ve placed my trust. I’m convinced that God is powerful enough to protect what he has placed in my trust until that day. 13 Hold on to the pattern of sound teaching that you heard from me with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. 14 Protect this good thing that has been placed in your trust through the Holy Spirit who lives in us.

Don’t be shy. Don’t be ashamed. Don’t hesitate. Don’t use words if you can’t think of any but show by your actions and your love whose cause you promote. Promoting the promise of the life that is in Christ is a lifelong endeavor.

Let’s get started.

It is good to share.

Believing Parents

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I am the product of generations of Methodist believers. My great-grandfather was a circuit riding preacher in Pennsylvania. My grandmother was very active in the church and served as a lay delegate to Annual Conferences, and my parents met in the local church choir, where they later married and baptized me. I was raised in a small church in New Jersey and gave my life to Christ in an altar call there. Basically, if you cut me, I bleed Methodist. Even in later years when I left home to go to college and get married to a Navy pilot, I was heavily imprinted by their example and beliefs.

I don’t think we can put too much emphasis on a parent’s influence over their child’s growing belief system. On Sunday mornings as I look out upon my congregation in Kitty Hawk, NC, I see the young parents and their bubbly children, and I am truly grateful. I know first-hand how hard it is to get kids ready for church early on a Sunday morning. I know how many other options, responsibilities, and activities that have to be set aside to make church happen in a young family. Bless you all who try so hard to help your kids encounter Jesus every week! Kids belong in church. The church depends on you for its future.

In this passage in Acts, we meet a young disciple named Timothy, who was the son of a believing Jewish woman and a Greek father. Can you imagine the conversations they had around their dinner table? Timothy grew up listening to them talk about Jesus from their very diverse backgrounds. Certainly it was solely their influence that helped him know and love the Lord.

Paul, being the master recruiter that he was, sought Timothy out and made him an evangelist:

Acts 16:1-5 (Common English Bible)

16 Paul reached Derbe, and then Lystra, where there was a disciple named Timothy. He was the son of a believing Jewish woman and a Greek father.2 The brothers and sisters in Lystra and Iconium spoke well of him. 3 Paul wanted to take Timothy with him, so he circumcised him. This was because of the Jews who lived in those areas, for they all knew Timothy’s father was Greek. 4 As Paul and his companions traveled through the cities, they instructed Gentile believers to keep the regulations put in place by the apostles and elders in Jerusalem. 5 So the churches were strengthened in the faith and every day their numbers flourished.

I always admire Paul’s ability to read a room. He had Timothy circumcised so that Timothy would be more approachable to the Jews. I wonder what changes we should make in our lives to make ourselves more approachable to people who need Jesus in their lives. Are your habits and interactions winsome to the effort, or is there something about you that turns people away from desiring to know God? I always think about something one of my minister friends said … if you’re cutting people off on the road in your Lexus and flipping them the bird, that ichthus on your bumper ain’t bringing people to Jesus! And she was right. People judge the church by its members’ actions and behaviors. Are you an influencer, or an obstructionist?

I love how Acts gives us a glimpse into the early church. Paul wisely counseled the Gentile believers to follow the teachings of the elders. When they did, the churches were strengthened and they flourished.

It is good for us to go back to this beginning. To be people who love Jesus and follow in his steps. To love who he loved and do his will. To follow his commandments and care for the fragile ones around us. To seek the kingdom with all our hearts.

When we do this, we too shall be strengthened and flourish.

Sing to the Lord a New Song by Michelle Robertson

Everything

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Do you like to order food with everything on it, such as a pizza with all the toppings, a cheeseburger with the works, or a bagel with everything? This last item is so popular, you can now purchase a seasoning called “Everything Bagel Seasoning” that has all those flavors. It is a heavenly combination of different kinds of sesame seeds, poppy seeds, garlic, onion and salt. People rave about it on cottage cheese. It takes a lot to make cottage cheese rave worthy, so that’s saying a lot.

We had a family member go through a health scare last week that thankfully was resolved very quickly. The family pivoted and surrounded this person with love and support. God’s grace was supremely evident in smoothing out arrangements, transportation, wonderful health care, etc. and the entire experience made us all realize that God is indeed, our Everything. It is a day to rejoice and give thanks.

Not surprisingly, I opened up the lectionary assignments for this week and discovered this little gem from the Psalms, which surely reads like a bagel with everything:

Psalm 105:1-6, 37-45 (Common English Bible)

Give thanks to the Lord;
    call upon his name;
    make his deeds known to all people!
2 Sing to God;
    sing praises to the Lord;
    dwell on all his wondrous works!
3 Give praise to God’s holy name!
    Let the hearts rejoice of all those seeking the Lord!
4 Pursue the Lord and his strength;
    seek his face always!
5 Remember the wondrous works he has done,
    all his marvelous works, and the justice he declared—
6 you who are the offspring of Abraham, his servant,
        and the children of Jacob, his chosen ones.

I wonder how many times we narrowly avoid a crisis only to continue on a normal path without giving thanks to God for seeing us through the near-miss? How many times do we pray for help and when helps comes, we just pick up where we left off and forget to return to God with thanksgiving? I am reminded of the story in Luke 17 of the ten lepers who were healed by Jesus. Do you remember how many returned to thank him for his healing? One. Shame on us when we forget that God is our Everything.

37 Then God brought Israel out, filled with silver and gold;
    not one of its tribes stumbled.
38 Egypt celebrated when they left,
    because the dread of Israel had come upon them.

39 God spread out clouds as a covering;
    gave lightning to provide light at night.
40 The people asked, and God brought quail;
    God filled them full with food from heaven.
41 God opened the rock and out gushed water—
    flowing like a river through the desert!

One of the saddest parts of the Exodus story is that the minute they were delivered from slavery, the nation began to complain. Let that settle in for a moment. Does that describe you? God provided a light at night, quail to eat, manna from heaven, and water from a rock in the middle of a barren desert. Their response was to complain that they had it better in Egypt because their slave owners fed them meat. Even in the midst of your struggle and trial, is there some light of hope shining through? If so, give thanks.

42 Because God remembered his holy promise
    to Abraham his servant,
43     God brought his people out with rejoicing,
    his chosen ones with songs of joy.
44 God gave them the lands of other nations;
    they inherited the wealth of many peoples—
45 all so that they would keep his laws
        and observe his instructions.

God always remember his holy promises. God will always deliver his people. God gives us way better than we deserve, because he is our Everything. Ask yourself this: who or what is your everything? Have you put your hopes and dreams in other things, people, or circumstances? Do you “thank your lucky stars” or do you understand that your blessings come straight from God?

Today, may we redirect our praise to our Everything. God will never let us down.

Praise the Lord!

Thank the Lord! by Michelle Robertson

Pathway to Peace

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“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

This beautiful prayer is a hallmark of 12 Step groups such as AA. The origin of it is somewhat disputed, but look at this longer prayer written by theologian Reinhold Niebuhr:

God, give us grace to accept with serenity the things that cannot be changed, courage to change the things which should be changed, and the wisdom to distinguish the one from the other.

Living one day at a time, enjoying one moment at a time, accepting hardship as a pathway to peace.

Taking, as Jesus did, this sinful world as it is, not as I would have it.

Trusting that You will make all things right, if I surrender to Your will, so that I may be reasonably happy in this life, and supremely happy with You forever in the next.

Amen.

The pursuit of serenity and peace is something that consumes many of us, with little to no results. The reason may be that we are using the wrong things to find it. Hoping to find serenity in alcohol, drugs, food, “retail therapy”, inappropriate relationships, overworking, over exercising, attempting to control everything around us … even the list itself is exhausting.

I know someone who religiously gets up every morning to pour over every single page of a national newspaper, thinking that intellectual pursuit of answers to her anxiety about the current state of affairs will bring her peace. It does not. I know someone else who is up at the crack of dawn to exercise, followed by more cardio work and group classes throughout the day, in hopes that physical exhaustion will settle her mind down. It does not. Neither will the every afternoon Happy Hour routine, the weed smoked before class, the sexting, the pornography, the overspending, the under-eating … nothing we can produce or manufacture will bring us true peace. It is all lies, smoke, and mirrors fueled by industries who are just trying to produce more consumption of useless things.

Niebuhr was right. Accepting hardship, rather than denying it, is the pathway to peace. Living one day at a time, rather than spinning with worry about tomorrow, will lead us to serenity. Enjoying one moment at a time, rather than comparing that moment to the fun everyone on Fakebook seems to be having, will lead to acceptance of the world as it is. And the key? “Trusting that He will make all things right if I surrender to His will.”

Take a look at verses 3 and 4 of this passage from Isaiah. Note that the voice changes in this passage; verse 1 and 2 describes what is happening, verse 3 addresses God, and verse 4 addresses us.

Isaiah 26

1 In that day this song will be sung in the land of Judah:

“We have a strong city;

    he sets up salvation

    as walls and bulwarks.

2 Open the gates,

    that the righteous nation that keeps faith may enter in.”

3 You keep him in perfect peace

    whose mind is stayed on You,

    because he trusts in You.

4 Trust in the Lord forever,

    for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.

To be kept in this perfect peace, our minds must be “stayed” on God. The Hebrew word “sawmak” comes from the root “to prop,” and is translated as “to lean upon or take hold of; to bear up, establish, uphold, lay, lean, lie hard, put, rest self, set self, stand fast, stay, sustain.” (Strong’s Dictionary)

So, what sustains your mind? What do you lay your mind upon? What does your mind stand fast upon? What is your mind leaning on? To have perfect peace, your mind can’t just occasionally visit the Lord; it has to be STAYED on him. Keeping your mind, heart, soul and activity wholly centered on God is the way to peace.

Trust in the Lord forever, for the Lord God is an everlasting rock.Real Serenity by Michelle Robertson.

H.O.P.E.

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A long time ago I did a children’s sermon on the word “hope” and used it as an acronym to explain what it means to have hope. Hope is wanting something to get better. So we can have HOPE when we remember that there are always (H)elpers who will come alongside of us when we are in trouble. And if we remain (O)pen to seeing what God is doing all around us, it can help us to realize that God is working for good in our situation. Of course, HOPE comes to us when we (P)ray, and we should always (E)xpect that God is listening to us and will answer in his time, because his Word promises exactly that. That’s hope!

I want you to think of places in your life where you are lacking hope. Perhaps your job situation or your business is crumbling around you. Maybe your marriage or a relationship is in trouble. A challenging child or your teenager might be a dark place for you today, or maybe a betrayal or argument has kept you up at night.

Whatever is going on in your life that has left you feeling hopeless, this scripture is for you:

Zechariah 9 (New Revised Standard Version)

Rejoice greatly, O daughter Zion!
    Shout aloud, O daughter Jerusalem!
Lo, your king comes to you;
    triumphant and victorious is he,
humble and riding on a donkey,
    on a colt, the foal of a donkey.

Does that sound like Jesus? Zechariah was an Old Testament prophet, proclaiming the coming of the long-awaited Messiah. With New Testament hindsight, we can see Jesus entering Jerusalem on Palm Sunday in this passage.

10 He will cut off the chariot from Ephraim
    and the war-horse from Jerusalem;
and the battle bow shall be cut off,
    and he shall command peace to the nations;
his dominion shall be from sea to sea,
    and from the River to the ends of the earth.

As Christian readers, we see a prefiguring of Christ’s Second Coming in this verse. We all long for the day when Christ’s dominion will rule the earth and his peace will be known in every nation. Come, Lord Jesus, come!

11 As for you also, because of the blood of my covenant with you,
    I will set your prisoners free from the waterless pit.
12 Return to your stronghold, O prisoners of hope;
    today I declare that I will restore to you double.

Here’s where it gets personal. You have a blood-covenant relationship with Christ if you are part of his flock. He is active right now in setting you free from the waterless pit of your despair. So return to your stronghold by looking for helpers, opening your heart to God’s activity, praying without ceasing, and expecting God to restore you. Hope is your stronghold. Cling to that.

In times of great distress, God calls us to be prisoners of hope. May we never let go of that chain.

“Hope is a thing with feathers…” by Michelle Robertson (quote by Emily Dickinson)