Labels
A recent trip to the vet to refill my dog’s prescriptions gave me a good chuckle as I stood at the reception counter. I looked down as I was handing my credit card over and spotted sticky labels that are used to alert the staff about potential behaviors an animal might have (see picture below). I spotted the “Aggressive,” “May Bite,” and “Might Bite” labels right away. Immediately I thought that it might be easier if people came appropriately labeled. It would give you a heads up about who to avoid and who is safe for interaction.
Of course, labeling is a terrible idea for people. Communities that have fought for decades against stereotyping have taught us this. Negative stereotypes are obviously harmful, but positive stereotypes can be damaging as well, as they force people into a “box” where not everyone belongs. Teachers know this better than anyone, I think. Labeling students as lazy, slow, good at math, or compliant robs each one of their individuality. It is better to let people speak for themselves and take a moment to look beyond the outer information to see what is hidden underneath.
This thinking is biblical. God reminded Samuel that outer appearances may tell one story, but looking into the inner self is wiser. In our Scripture this morning, Samuel has been sent by God to anoint the next king of Israel. He has been directed to observe Jesse’s many fine sons, among whom is God’s choice:
2 Samuel 16 (The Message)
16 God addressed Samuel: “So, how long are you going to mope over Saul? You know I’ve rejected him as king over Israel. Fill your flask with anointing oil and get going. I’m sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem. I’ve spotted the very king I want among his sons.”
2-3 “I can’t do that,” said Samuel. “Saul will hear about it and kill me.”
God said, “Take a heifer with you and announce, ‘I’ve come to lead you in worship of God, with this heifer as a sacrifice.’ Make sure Jesse gets invited. I’ll let you know what to do next. I’ll point out the one you are to anoint.”
4 Samuel did what God told him. When he arrived at Bethlehem, the town fathers greeted him, but apprehensively. “Is there something wrong?”
5 “Nothing’s wrong. I’ve come to sacrifice this heifer and lead you in the worship of God. Prepare yourselves, be consecrated, and join me in worship.” He made sure Jesse and his sons were also consecrated and called to worship.
6 When they arrived, Samuel took one look at Eliab and thought, “Here he is! God’s anointed!”
7 But God told Samuel, “Looks aren’t everything. Don’t be impressed with his looks and stature. I’ve already eliminated him. God judges persons differently than humans do. Men and women look at the face; God looks into the heart.”
8 Jesse then called up Abinadab and presented him to Samuel. Samuel said, “This man isn’t God’s choice either.”
9 Next Jesse presented Shammah. Samuel said, “No, this man isn’t either.”
10 Jesse presented his seven sons to Samuel. Samuel was blunt with Jesse, “God hasn’t chosen any of these.”
11 Then he asked Jesse, “Is this it? Are there no more sons?”
“Well, yes, there’s the runt. But he’s out tending the sheep.”
Samuel ordered Jesse, “Go get him. We’re not moving from this spot until he’s here.”
12 Jesse sent for him. He was brought in, the very picture of health—bright-eyed, good-looking.
God said, “Up on your feet! Anoint him! This is the one.”
13 Samuel took his flask of oil and anointed him, with his brothers standing around watching. The Spirit of God entered David like a rush of wind, God vitally empowering him for the rest of his life.
Samuel left and went home to Ramah.
You can see from this story that if Samuel had followed his intuition, David would not have been selected as king. This is a great reminder to look upon the heart, not the appearance, of people we encounter. Who knows what relationships might form if we were to do that! Our neighborhoods might be more peaceful, our workplaces might have more harmony, and politicians might actually have to run on issues rather than character assassinations.
It wasn’t until I got home and looked at the picture again that I noticed the label that said, “May Give Kisses.” Our challenge today it to encounter a stranger and label them “May Give Kisses” and deal with them accordingly.
A greater challenge is to wear that one ourselves.

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