The Phone on the Wall
Younger readers probably have no concept of what a phone on a wall is, but for the rest of us, the image is clear. It was probably beige, pink, or possibly mint green (if you grew up in a “mod” house) and it had a corkscrew coiled cord that was likely to be twisted a few times over. In my childhood, push buttons had already replaced a rotary dial and we thought we were fancy. The phone functioned properly as a means of communication, but a phone on a wall meant one thing: anyone could answer the phone, and everyone in close proximity could hear your conversation because you were stuck there.
My father was active in the local masonic lodge and as he “rose in the chairs” i.e. moved up in the tiers of leadership, the phone calls to our house increased as men called for guidance or information. One such fellow introduced himself and asked to speak to the “Worshipful Master,” which sent my sister and me into giggling fits. To this day she swears that he asked to speak to the “Wash Your Old Mustard.” It must have been that heavy south Jersey accent. In any case, nobody had any privacy in our house at all!
The first chapters of all of Paul’s letters to his churches are like standing in the kitchen, overhearing greetings and salutations at the beginning of a phone conversation. Paul was a master rhetorician, and his letters quickly set the tone for what was to follow. Take a look at the beginning of his letter to his church at Thessalonica:
1 Thessalonians 1 (Common English Bible)
2 We always thank God for all of you when we mention you constantly in our prayers. 3 This is because we remember your work that comes from faith, your effort that comes from love, and your perseverance that comes from hope in our Lord Jesus Christ in the presence of our God and Father.
Paul certainly knew how to set a table, didn’t he? The spirit of thanksgiving and appreciation is the first thing he laid out, reassuring them that he was aware of their great work and their greater faith. At this point he hadn’t seen them for months, but he jumped right back into the relationship with the first sentence. Flattery got Paul everywhere.
4 Brothers and sisters, you are loved by God, and we know that he has chosen you. 5 We know this because our good news didn’t come to you just in speech but also with power and the Holy Spirit and with deep conviction. You know as well as we do what kind of people we were when we were with you, which was for your sake.
By reminding them of the power of the Holy Spirit and the conviction it brings, he may be using this as a teaching moment in case they had fallen off the track. It is like a parent saying, “I’m sure you remembered to clean up your room, didn’t you?” to their child.
6 You became imitators of us and of the Lord when you accepted the message that came from the Holy Spirit with joy in spite of great suffering. 7 As a result you became an example to all the believers in Macedonia and Achaia. 8 The message about the Lord rang out from you, not only in Macedonia and Achaia but in every place. The news about your faithfulness to God has spread so that we don’t even need to mention it. 9 People tell us about what sort of welcome we had from you and how you turned to God from idols. As a result, you are serving the living and true God, 10 and you are waiting for his Son from heaven. His Son is Jesus, who is the one he raised from the dead and who is the one who will rescue us from the coming wrath.
This affirmation is strong and sincere. Paul was genuinely grateful for their ministry and the impact it has had throughout the land. Their work was so impressive, he heard about them as he continued to travel. He praised not only how they were serving the living God, but how they were waiting for the Second Coming. Paul truly loved this church.
I think this passage invites us to consider how we approach people. Are we open and winsome, or do we take relationships for granted? Are we keeping up with our friends even when we are apart? Do we take the time to encourage and praise the people around us?
All of this takes effort. It took Paul a lot of effort to write these letters by hand and it took a lot of effort to see that they reached their final destination. I bet you have your phone within reach right now. It might even be in your hand. You don’t even have to get up and walk to the wall in the kitchen. Why don’t you take a moment and share a word of grace with someone right now? Maybe just a quick text that says, “Thank you for being part of my life.” They’ll be glad you did.
And so will you.

Share the Love by Michelle Robertson








