Three Things about Loss

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So many people I know are dealing with loss right now; a dear friend lost her mother a few weeks ago, another is in the final death moments of a long and happy marriage, a third is grieving her daughter moving out of state, and yet another was just laid off from a job he loved for many years. What is God’s perspective of these things? How can we negotiate losing people and situations that we think we can’t live without? How can we manage our grief?

Here are three things to consider if you are grieving today:

One: this time of painful separation is only temporary. While the rest of your earthly life will be spent without the one or that thing that you love, the rest of your life is but a blink of an eye in the scope of eternity. These events are hardly a blip in the scope of an eternal lifetime. 

The problem with grieving is that it slooowwws down time. We become suspended in an artificial reality that is all too real. Days are long and nights are longer because we are stuck in the moment of our crisis like a fly caught in tree sap. Grief can make us feel as though we are swimming in tar, trying to reach a distant shore that keeps moving farther away and the swim is taking forever. Embracing God’s perspective that death and mourning are only temporary states can begin to help us shake off our sluggishness and get on with what is the rest of our short existence here.

Hear these words of Psalm 90 that offer us a perspective of how God measures time: 

A thousand years in your sight are like a day that has just gone by, or like a watch in the night. (Psalm 90:4, NIV 1984) 

In God’s perspective of time, a thousand years are like a day; so, 70-80+ years of an average life span are just a blink of an eye in the scope of our eternal life span.  In our eternal state, this very real grief will become a distant memory.

Two: loss and death aren’t the end. What joy can fill our hearts to know that! If we take on God’s perspective that death isn’t final, then we can begin to process our loss as more of a kind of misplacement rather than a permanent loss. Sometimes in life, we lose things that we know will never be found again. When you lose one earring after a night out, you can look for months and know you will never find it again; it is gone forever. But other times we simply misplace things, like car keys and sunglasses. We are sure they are somewhere in the house, in a purse, or in a pocket, but we have to look in a couple of places before we find them. Understanding death from God’s perspective is more like that; our loved one is not lost forever, just in another place, waiting to be reclaimed when we die and join them in eternity. 

And comfort comes from knowing that they are never, ever misplaced from God, for he is present in life, in death, and in eternity.

Three: when we lose someone or something, we are never alone. Even though we might feel alone, abandoned, and forsaken, there is never a moment when the God who was present before time is not present with us in our anguish. Even Jesus felt abandoned, but he was not. Upon his death, he experienced the power of resurrection and was reunited with the Father. Sin is the only thing that can ever separate us from the Father, but death never can, and so we can find comfort in knowing that in the depth of our loneliness, God is near. 

Jesus came in the flesh to embody the love of the Father for the world. He is the incarnate Lord, the walking-divine who instructs us about the intentions and perspectives of our eternal God. He experienced earthly life, earthly death, and heavenly resurrection. He appeared to His disciples just before his final ascension into heaven. Hear what Jesus had to say about abandonment: 

And surely, I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” (Matthew 28:18-20, NIV 1984) 

This is Jesus’ reminder to you today that he is with you in your grief walk. He will never abandon or forsake you. There is no deep, dark place of sorrow that you can go without him. There is no level of anger that he cannot withstand from you; there is no place of hopelessness that he will not traverse by your side; there is no place of loneliness that he does not occupy. 

You are not alone. Thanks be to God.    

In our end is our beginning
In our time, infinity
In our doubt, there is believing
In our life, eternity
In our death, a resurrection
At the last, a victory

Unrevealed until its season
Something God alone can see. (Hymn of Promise, Natalie Sleeth, United Methodist Hymnal #707)

Unrevealed Until Its Season by Michelle Robertson

Come Home, Rebel

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Today’s reading takes us into the mind of Jeremiah, the Old Testament prophet who was tasked with an impossible job: to preach to a rebellious people saying things they would not hear or heed. Have you ever had to deliver a harsh word to people you love? If so, you can feel his pain. This passage is a little long, but hang in there.

Jeremiah 2:5-13, 29-32 (New Revised Standard Version)

5 Thus says the LORD:  What wrong did your ancestors find in me that they went far from me, and went after worthless things, and became worthless themselves?  6 They did not say, “Where is the LORD who brought us up from the land of Egypt, who led us in the wilderness, in a land of deserts and pits, in a land of drought and deep darkness, in a land that no one passes through, where no one lives?”  7 I brought you into a plentiful land to eat its fruits and its good things. But when you entered you defiled my land and made my heritage an abomination.  8 The priests did not say, “Where is the LORD?” Those who handle the law did not know me; the rulers transgressed against me; the prophets prophesied by Baal and went after things that do not profit.  

9 Therefore, once more, I accuse you, says the Lord, and I accuse your children’s children.  10 Cross to the coasts of Cyprus and look, send to Kedar and examine with care; see if there has ever been such a thing.  11 Has a nation changed its gods, even though they are no gods?  But my people have changed their glory for something that does not profit.  12 Be appalled, O heavens, at this, Therefore once more I accuse you, says the LORD, be shocked, be utterly desolate, says the LORD, 13 for my people have committed two evils: they have forsaken me, the fountain of living water, and dug out cisterns for themselves, cracked cisterns that can hold no water.

29 Why do you complain against me? You have all rebelled against me, says the LORD.  30 In vain I have struck down your children; they accepted no correction.  Your own sword devoured your prophets like a ravening lion.  31 And you, O generation, behold the word of the LORD!  Have I been a wilderness to Israel, or a land of thick darkness?  Why then do my people say, “We are free, we will come to you no more”?  32 Can a girl forget her ornaments, or a bride her attire?  Yet my people have forgotten me, days without number.

 If this is your first time reading Jeremiah, you might be feeling like you just took a sip of water out of a fire hydrant. It’s a lot to take in! Jeremiah was a prophet in a time of great apostasy, when the entire nation of Israel had turned their backs on God in every possible way. Having been safely brought out of slavery in Egypt and delivered into the lushness of the Promised Land, they now worshiped the false gods of their pagan neighbors and turned to Baal for divine guidance.

Did you pick up on the “living water” reference in verse 13? What a beautiful tie-in with Wednesday’s reading, where Jesus offered himself to the world as the Living Water that so completes us, we will never thirst again. In this passage, God described the living water he faithfully offered Israel, only to be rejected. People had chosen to dig out cracked cisterns for themselves that hold no water.

 Why do we make things so hard for ourselves? Why not just open our mouths wide and drink in living water? Yet we demand our own way and labor at the unprofitable task of grunting and digging out a useless and broken cistern of secularism and world things that can’t possibly sustain us.

 When we chase after the ungodly, when we follow the dictates of the secular world in pursuing what is popular, cool, admired, sought after (status, wealth, beauty, celebrity, material things, inappropriate relationships, etc.), we turn our backs on God and bow down to false gods.

Where have you rejected God? Where has something been so tempting, so appealing, that you lost your mind and flew after it, forsaking the One who brought you out of your own desert?

Come home, rebel. Come back to God. Remember who you are.

Come to the Waters by Michelle Robertson

A Touch of the Bubbly

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I have a friend who is best described as “bubbly.” Her demeanor is always positive, glass-half-full, and joyful. I don’t know how she does it, as I know that she has had tragedy in her life and things haven’t always been easy. But the bubbles well up in her and escape, infusing their celebration into every encounter. She is a woman of deep faith, and I think that is why.

Today we read about woman who encountered water that was so lively, it ended up being bubbly:

John 4:1-26 (New Revised Standard Version)

1 Now when Jesus learned that the Pharisees had heard, “Jesus is making and baptizing more disciples than John”— 2 although it was not Jesus himself but his disciples who baptized—3 he left Judea and started back to Galilee. 4 But he had to go through Samaria. 5 So he came to a Samaritan city called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6 Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired out by his journey, was sitting by the well. It was about noon. 7 A Samaritan woman came to draw water, and Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” 8 (His disciples had gone to the city to buy food.) 9 The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?” (Jews do not share things in common with Samaritans.) 

10 Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” 11 The woman said to him, “Sir, you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12 Are you greater than our ancestor Jacob, who gave us the well, and with his sons and his flocks drank from it?” 

13 Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” 15 The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.”

 In fancy restaurants in Europe, the first question you are asked upon being seated is, “Still, or gas?” This startled me in Italy, as I don’t ever want gas from a meal. (!) But of course they are offering two different types of water: still, which is flat, or gas, which is bubbly and effervescent. The still water is what comes out of the tap. It is the mundane, ordinary alternative to the sparkling exuberance of gas water.

 Jesus is the latter. He is lively and brings life. Once uncorked, he explodes onto a scene and changes it for the better. Remember his first miracle at the wedding at Cana of Galilee? He transformed still, flat water into the best wine ever served. I wonder if, in keeping with his nature, it was actually a sparkling rose, or a lovely Prosecco….

Jesus is the essence of life, and he is necessary for life, but not just in the way he sustains it. Rather, he brings effervescent joy to your life. Living water is ours to indulge in whenever we open ourselves wide and take it in. He reminds us that he came to give life, and the life he gives is “abundant life.”

This is a cause for reflection if you find yourself today in a state that is joyless and lacking in that abundance that Jesus promised. Sometimes life situations can knock you off your pins and bring sadness, doubt, anxiety, depression, and ennui. When that happens, it is good to remember that there is a time for every season and every matter under the sun, as we read in Ecclesiastes 3. This reminds us that God is the master Timekeeper, and those low places are under his control just as surely as the high places are. If you are low today, know that you are not alone. Jesus has walked the lonely valley and he walks with you in your desert, too. The psalmist reminds us that joy comes in the morning, but sometimes it is a very long night.

 Your challenge today is to find a moment of pure, abundant, sparkling life, even if you are feeling a little down. Perhaps the best way to find it is to give it to someone else. So go ye therefore and sparkle up someone’s day! Be the abundant joy for someone else, and see what effervescence comes back to you.

Living Water by Michelle Robertson

Sole Soul Vision

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A recent sermon series had me studying the history of the beautiful Irish hymn, Be Thou My Vision. Do you know the story?It begins in ancient Ireland with St. Patrick. When he was just sixteen years old, pirates kidnapped Patrick and sold him into slavery in Ireland. Thus he entered adulthood knowing the Gaelic language and Irish customs. He also became a Christian during this time. Years later, he managed to escape and return home to his family in England. While most would have stayed home forever, Patrick chose to go back to Ireland and become a missionary  It was during this second trip, around 433, that the inspiration for Be Thou My Vision began.

The king of Ireland was King Laoghaire. He was a great Celtic High King, renowned for his ferocity and brute strength. He resided on a hill called Tara. Every year at the time of the Beltaine Festival, which occurred at the spring equinox, King Laoghaire a fire ceremony for the druids and his subjects called the Feast of Tara. The highlight of the feast was when he lit a sacred fire at the top of the hill to honor the pagan sun god, and it was left burning for a number of days.

The Hill of Tara was a cultic center where people worshiped the Celtic god of the sun, Lugh. In pagan society, the sun was given exalted importance because it is the main source of light and warmth, and it makes the plants grow, providing sustenance. Consequently, pagan sun worship was deeply embedded in the fabric of the Celtic people.

The king strictly prohibited any other fires that could be seen from Tara during the entire duration of the festival.

But there was another hill in the same region about ten miles away called the Hill of Slane. When visibility was good, it was possible to see from one hill to the other. 

St. Patrick was not intimidated by the king’s pagan festival, and defiantly disregarded the king’s order. St. Patrick lit a Paschal (meaning Easter) fire and an Easter Candle during the Vigil Service on the night before Easter. The fire was left burning and could be seen clearly from the Hill of Tara. King Laoghaire was either impressed or intimidated by Patrick’s devotion and, despite his defiance, Patrick was permitted to continue his work as Ireland’s first Christian missionary.

St. Patrick made an emphatic statement: Jesus is the light of the world, and none other, not even a pagan sun god, could hold a candle to him.

John 8 (New International Version)

12 When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.”

We are called to have the same vision that Patrick had. To be a beacon of light on a hill, proclaiming the Lordship of Jesus Christ. That is the vision for the church: to act with love, justice, and righteousness as we shine the light of Christ into a dark and hurting world (Jeremiah 9:23-24). 

I am thankful that my denomination has sought to be a headlight in some of the major social issues of our time rather than a brake-light. Evangelism and social action are the two sides of a whole Gospel. Without vision, we will lose both. The church has a vision to make disciples of Jesus Christ for the transformation of the world and to bring God’s steadfast love, justice, and righteousness to all of God’s children. This is a huge task. But a church that has a vision does not ask for tasks equal to its power. A church that has a vision asks for power equal to its tasks. And this is the task we have been assigned.

Vision in this context is not just about seeing God’s vision for our church and our own lives, but also being the vision that others can see, like Patrick’s Pascal fire on that hill. When we make God our sole vision…i.e. when we say, “Naught be all else to me, save that Thou art” … we reflect his light into a world that desperately needs him.

See the vision? Be the vision.

Be a Beacon of Light

Flub Ups and Do-Overs

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Have you ever done something you instantly regretted, like missing the pop fly in the championship game, failing to get the big fish in the net, blurting out something totally inappropriate, or otherwise completely flubbing something up? I bet you wished you could get a do-over. We’ve all been there and wished that. Sometimes I think I live in the land of FlubUp. I’m actually starting to get mail there.

Today’s reading is a reminder that God always offers do-overs to us:

Deuteronomy 10:1-5 (New Revised Standard Version)

10:1 At that time the LORD said to me (Moses), “Carve out two tablets of stone like the former ones, and come up to me on the mountain, and make an ark of wood. 2 I will write on the tablets the words that were on the former tablets, which you smashed, and you shall put them in the ark.” 3 So I made an ark of acacia wood, cut two tablets of stone like the former ones, and went up the mountain with the two tablets in my hand. 

4 Then he wrote on the tablets the same words as before, the ten commandments that the LORD had spoken to you on the mountain out of the fire on the day of the assembly; and the LORD gave them to me. 5 So I turned and came down from the mountain and put the tablets in the ark that I had made; and there they are, as the LORD commanded me.

 So, Moses and the people of Israel get a do-over! They had already received the Ten Commandments, inscribed in stone by the very finger of God. But when Moses returned with the tablets the first time, he discovered that in his absence the people had turned back to their idols, and his brother had made a golden calf for them to worship. Talk about a flub up! In righteous anger, Moses smashed the first set of tablets, symbolizing the breaking of God’s law by his people. 

 Why did the people turn so quickly away from the God who had just brought them out of slavery in Egypt to a hunk of metal shaped like a farm animal? Because people are created for worship. And so in place of God, we will worship anything: fame, money, the easy high, flattery, the intrigue of an inappropriate relationship, possessions … all kinds of fake things.

 We are the same as our desert ancestors. When we worship all of those inappropriate things, we reject our God who has provided for our every need, if not our every want. The comparison trap of social media only serves to make us want these things even more. Every time you scroll, stop, and pinch out to see an image more clearly, you end up comparing yourself to that person or thing. Whether it’s a celebrity’s new nose, your neighbor’s idyllic vacation photos, a purse you can’t afford, or an unattainable lifestyle, you are in reality worshipping something completely unreal. We lose sight of the difference between needs and wants. We end up creating golden calves multiple times each day, and God is forgotten in our pursuits of these false idols.

 But God, in his mercy, gave the people a do-over. God is always about second chances. Even as you are reading this, God is making his way toward you, offering you a second (or third, or eightieth) chance to get right with him. That is what the cross is all about: delivering us from the slavery of sin and death and bringing us into the land of redemption and freedom. 

 The question is, who or what will you worship? Know this for sure; your golden calf may be shiny and attractive, but it brings you nothing but the hollowness and superficiality of fake gold. 

 Quit falling for it. Turn to the one true God in humility and repentance, and do it over. God will give you every second chance that you need. Thanks be to God!

Needs a Do-Over by Michelle Robertson

Bath-tisms

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Last week I had the privilege of returning to my old church for the baptism of my three youngest grandchildren, who will grow up there. It is my fifth time to be back in that Sanctuary; the first four times were for funerals, and then we attended Christmas Eve service there last year. It is always a bittersweet moment for me, as I loved that church and its people. But how lovely it was to be there baptizing a new generation of family who will be blessed as I was to be a part of such a wonderful congregation! There was some confusion in the three-year-old’s mind, though. He couldn’t understand why he had to go to church for his “bath-tism” since he gets his baths at home. Considering that baths are for getting clean, he wasn’t far off!

As I looked out to the congregation from the stage, I was struck by a memory of kneeling on the concrete floor during the building of that worship center and writing my favorite scripture with a fat sharpie. The building committee had opened the space up before the carpet was laid and everyone was given an opportunity to write something on the bare floor. I chose Romans 8:28:

Romans 8 (Common English Bible)

26 In the same way, the Spirit comes to help our weakness. We don’t know what we should pray, but the Spirit himself pleads our case with unexpressed groans. 27 The one who searches hearts knows how the Spirit thinks, because he pleads for the saints, consistent with God’s will. 28 We know that God works all things together for good for the ones who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose. 29 We know this because God knew them in advance, and he decided in advance that they would be conformed to the image of his Son. That way his Son would be the first of many brothers and sisters. 30 Those who God decided in advance would be conformed to his Son, he also called. Those whom he called, he also made righteous. Those whom he made righteous, he also glorified.

I have used that Scripture more in counseling and staff meetings than any other Scripture. I believe it with all my heart. God can use happy times, tragic times, disaster, abundance, scarcity, etc. for our good if we just look for his activity among us. If God is for us, who can be against us?

31 So what are we going to say about these things? If God is for us, who is against us? 32 He didn’t spare his own Son but gave him up for us all. Won’t he also freely give us all things with him?

This is important to remember when you feel that life is crumbling all around you. I have felt that way, and I’m sure you have, too. No matter what, we can never be separated from Christ’s love:

37 But in all these things we win a sweeping victory through the one who loved us. 38 I’m convinced that nothing can separate us from God’s love in Christ Jesus our Lord: not death or life, not angels or rulers, not present things or future things, not powers 39 or height or depth, or any other thing that is created.

If you find yourself in the depth this morning, hold on to this promise. You can never be removed from God’s presence and his amazing and astounding love for you. We are named and claimed in our bath-tisms, and God never lets go.

Neither Height Nor Depth by Michelle Robertson

Just Be Nice

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I have a happy memory of visiting my mother at the paint factory where she worked as the bookkeeper when I was very young. Occasionally my babysitter would drop me off there and I had to wait until mother’s workday was finished. The men in the factory were all like old, wizened uncles to me. One in particular was quite fond of me and always asked me about my day. He called me “Ornery.” It was many years before I knew the definition of that word … but I did like that he gave me a special nickname. Now that I think about it, his choice of words was rather prophetic.

This gentleman once gave me a real treasure. It was a solid green marble ball with a gold and black band around it that read: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” I cherished this gift and hid it under my bed lest my sister try to take it from me. I often thought about the words and the generosity of that craggy old fellow.

I later learned that those words come from the Bible. Listen to this discourse from the book of Luke, as he records Jesus’ famous Sermon on the Mount. We begin with the “blessed are you” portions:

Luke 6 (New International Version)

20 Looking at his disciples, he said:

“Blessed are you who are poor,
    for yours is the kingdom of God.
21 Blessed are you who hunger now,
    for you will be satisfied.
Blessed are you who weep now,
    for you will laugh.
22 Blessed are you when people hate you,
    when they exclude you and insult you
    and reject your name as evil,
        because of the Son of Man.

23 “Rejoice in that day and leap for joy, because great is your reward in heaven. For that is how their ancestors treated the prophets.

Jesus assured the hearers that the resurrection will reverse all of their current woes. Poverty, hunger, weeping, rejection, exclusion, insults … soon will come a time when earth will pass away, and a time of rejoicing will ensue.

24 “But woe to you who are rich,
    for you have already received your comfort.
25 Woe to you who are well fed now,
    for you will go hungry.
Woe to you who laugh now,
    for you will mourn and weep.
26 Woe to you when everyone speaks well of you,
    for that is how their ancestors treated the false prophets.

But woe to those who enjoy the affluence and wealth of this earthly existence, for that, too will pass away and their joy will be short-lived here on earth.

27 “But to you who are listening I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. 29 If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. 30 Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.

Some people operate from a theology of ‘do unto others before they do unto you.’ Don’t be those people. So today, as you’re driving with angry drivers cutting you off, when you are in rush at the grocery store and the cashier is taking too long, when annoying things happen at home, remember the solid green ball’s message that fascinated a child: do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Just be nice!

Blessed by Michelle Robertson

Birthright

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I came upon a woman in the hair salon this week who was seated on the couch with her foot propped up. She wore a black orthopedic boot on her injured foot, and I saw crutches waiting along the wall for her. I expressed sympathy for her situation and then heard the whole story of how she slipped on the ice and fell down some stairs last February, Because she was gripping the railing, her entire body twisted, dislocating her ankle and tearing the tendons. The long months between then and now were filled with physical therapy, surgery, more injury to her hip and knee ligaments as her body accommodated the ankle injury, etc. It reminded me of the classic children’s book, “If You Give a Mouse a Cookie,” where each decision resulted in a further consequence that had to be dealt with. I certainly sympathized, as I have been there myself with injuries. The day I saw her was the first day she could drive by herself in six months, and she is beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

In our lectionary passage today, we see Jacob at a similar junction in his life. He was the younger of two sons of Isaac but had connived and deceived his father into giving him the birthright that was legally Esau’s. The birthright gave the eldest son control of the land and the family’s fortunes. Once that word was spoken, there was no turning back for any of them. Like the mouse’s cookie, the deception led to further consequences. Esau was angry and wanted revenge, and Jacob’s place as birthright-holder meant that he could not take a wife from among the Canaanites were they lived. For both reasons, Isaac sent Jacob away and Jacob found himself without a home or a family around him.

Genesis 28 (Common English Bible)

10 Jacob left Beer-sheba and set out for Haran. 11 He reached a certain place and spent the night there. When the sun had set, he took one of the stones at that place and put it near his head. Then he lay down there. 12 He dreamed and saw a raised staircase, its foundation on earth and its top touching the sky, and God’s messengers were ascending and descending on it. 13 Suddenly the Lord was standing on it and saying, “I am the Lord, the God of your father Abraham and the God of Isaac. I will give you and your descendants the land on which you are lying. 14 Your descendants will become like the dust of the earth; you will spread out to the west, east, north, and south. Every family of earth will be blessed because of you and your descendants. 

The legal implication of the stolen birthright meant that Jacob would now become the patriarch of Israel, and his life was forever changed. But as we read it, we realize that it was God’s plan all along for the younger brother to usurp the older one. The mouse got his cookie, the glass of milk, a napkin, and the land of milk and honey.

15 I am with you now, I will protect you everywhere you go, and I will bring you back to this land. I will not leave you until I have done everything that I have promised you.”

When Jacob was scheming for his father’s inheritance, he never imagined what would happen next. Did God approve of his lie? Nope. Did God use all things for the good of Israel? Always. Remember, Esau sold his priceless birthright for a mere bowl of stew. If we think that little of the enormous blessings God has bestowed upon us, we too will pay the consequences. The continuing damage to our environment comes to mind. We have failed to take good care of God’s creation and the evidence of our grabbing the cookie with disregard to the planet is all around us in the form of unbearable heat waves, polluted air and oceans, toxic spills, out of control wild fires, and other environmental disasters. We have forsaken the birthright of our beautiful earth.

16 When Jacob woke from his sleep, he thought to himself, The Lord is definitely in this place, but I didn’t know it. 

So here’s the good news. Even when we are in a spiral of bad decisions, the consequences of someone else’s actions, or things that are plummeting out of control, the Lord is still with us. Sometimes we are like Jacob when we are dealing with things, and we don’t know that the Lord is there.

Are you in such a place right now? Take heart. The Lord is definitely in that place with you, even if you didn’t know it.

The Lord is in This Place by Michelle Robertson

Breaking Dawn

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I am not a morning person, so my favorite way to watch the sunrise is by looking at my friend’s Facebook posts about an hour and a half after the fact. You have seen Michelle’s beautiful photography right here on many of my devotionals. She has a true talent. But Sundays are a different matter because I wake up in the dark to prepare for church. As I caffeinate, I notice the beautiful deep blue that replaces the charcoal grey as the sky prepares to welcome the sun. The sabbath breaking of dawn is almost prettier than the sunrise itself. It is so filled with promise.

Here on the Outer Banks, we enjoy “big sky,” where you can see for miles and miles. There are no high rises, no buildings, and even no trees to obstruct your view. As a friend’s child once observed on a cruise ship, you can “see as far as your eyes can look.” When the sky changes here, it colors the entire horizon.

If you’ve ever spent a sleepless night staring out your window, you know the change that comes over your soul when day finally begins to break. Somehow the company of the sun in your lonliness brings a warmth with it that dispels the darkness of the spirit, and even can bring with it a sense of “maybe this isn’t so bleak” as the night dissipates, and clarity comes in.

Every day is filled with promise. Every day is an opportunity to get it right, undo a wrong, make a difference, bring joy to someone, and talk to the Lord. The breaking dawn signals hope.

Psalm 119 (New International Version)

147 I rise before dawn and cry for help;
    I have put my hope in your word.
148 My eyes stay open through the watches of the night,
    that I may meditate on your promises.
149 Hear my voice in accordance with your love;
    preserve my life, Lord, according to your laws.
150 Those who devise wicked schemes are near,
    but they are far from your law.
151 Yet you are near, Lord,
    and all your commands are true.

The psalmist speaks into the early first strands of sunlight. Having stayed awake all night to meditate on God’s promises, he rises before dawn and cries for help. Ever been there?

So often we put our hope in other things: spouses, family, neighbors, the government, friends….and with luck, these things come through for us. But putting our hope in God’s word is the only thing we can really count on to sustain us and preserve us.

God is near, and his word is always true. So next time you find yourself awake in the dark, lean on his understanding and not your own.

Arise and shine, for your light has come.

Here Comes the Sun by Michelle Robertson

Welcome Home

Posted on by Betsy

Both of my daughters and their families have come home for a visit this summer, and our time spent together has been wonderful. Each one had a list of activities, meals, restaurants, and places they wanted to go that came straight from their childhood summers spent here on the Outer Banks. We relived those experiences, and hope that their children will consider OBX to be their summer home just like their Mamas still do. Home is that place you return to for love, rest, peace, and joy.

A week ago Sat. my church gathered in our Sanctuary and said goodbye to one of our oldest church members. But what we were really saying was Welcome Home. Jesus wanted us to understand that our one TRUE home is with him in heaven. He even promised to go ahead of us and make the beds.

John 14 (The Message)

 You trust God, don’t you? Trust me. There is plenty of room for you in my Father’s home. If that weren’t so, would I have told you that I’m on my way to get a room ready for you? And if I’m on my way to get your room ready, I’ll come back and get you so you can live where I live. And you already know the road I’m taking.”

Think about the word HOME for a moment. What does home mean to you?

1. HOME is a place to REFUGE when life implodes around you. 2. HOME is a place of REUNINTING with loved ones, where forgiveness, acceptance and mending take place. And 3. HOME is a place of REJOICING, where love is served on plates around a table.

When I think of home being a place of refuge, I immediately think of traveling home on semester breaks from college. I lived too far away to come home on weekends and so those Christmas and Spring breaks were life-giving to me. I can remember hauling my suitcase to the Greyhound bus station in State College, PA to ride for about 5 ½ hours to south New Jersey. Finally coming home to my house on 5 Chatham, to my parents, my dog, to my bedroom…. all the stress, text anxiety, all-nighters, the roommate issues, and my responsibilities would just melt away the instant I crossed that threshold and yelled “I’m home!!”  And for the next week, life was easy again, if only temporarily. 

Have you ever come home from a lousy day at work or school and felt that relief of that safe place? Have you ever returned to your childhood home or your grandparents’ home and experienced the comfort that it brought all over again? The HOME that we have with our Great God in heaven will be ten times better than that…. it will be a place of rest and refuge. Life is filled with chaos and confusion, but in heaven, we find our true home in God. And that, my friends, is a reason to rejoice.

And we know the road that will take us there. All who believe in Jesus shall not perish but have eternal life. Do you believe? Have you given your life to Christ? It is never too late.

Welcome Home.

The Road Home by Becca Ziegler