It wasn’t a big deal. We were enjoying a lunch at a beachside bistro with friends when I spotted an older gentleman pushing his wife in a wheelchair up the ramp toward us. As he got to the door, he struggled to get it open and then hold it as he made a tight corner with the chair. I could see and feel his frustration as he attempted to get his wife inside the air-conditioning and out of the hot sun. My husband was at the end of the table, so I said to him, “That fellow needs help with the door.” My husband sprang into action and with holding the door and guiding the chair from the front, they made it inside. Our lunch companion observed this and said to me, “You’re always at work.” She is a wonderful friend and church member, and she was referring to the position a pastor accepts when they are assigned to a flock. Our job is to constantly look over and look out for our people and respond. Again, it wasn’t a big deal, but it brought back memories of watching my father struggle with my mother’s wheelchair and feeling gratitude for many strangers who held doors and lent a hand. People showing compassion to strangers is peopling at its best.

Human compassion is a reflection of the very heart of God. God comforts us so that we can comfort others. Troubles are thus understood as opportunities to bring comfort to the suffering. Think about it a moment. The joy of giving and receiving comfort is bound up with the pain of suffering. Without one we would never experience the other.

2 Corinthians 1 (Common English Bible)

³ May the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ be blessed! He is the compassionate Father and God of all comfort. ⁴ He’s the one who comforts us in all our trouble so that we can comfort other people who are in every kind of trouble. We offer the same comfort that we ourselves received from God. ⁵ That is because we receive so much comfort through Christ in the same way that we share so many of Christ’s sufferings. 

Paul used the Greek word paraklesis when he spoke of God offering comfort. It is more than just sympathy: paraklesis refers to the strengthening and help that a strong Paraclete of consolation can bring. When he spoke of receiving comfort through Christ, he reminded us that Christ was never far from Paul in all of his suffering. That helped Paul to understand that God had a larger purpose for his discomfort. Indeed, Paul used those experiences in his preaching and ministering to his churches. He helped the church at Corinth understand that their sufferings would produce the endurance they needed to survive. Through their trouble they would receive salvation.

⁶ So if we have trouble, it is to bring you comfort and salvation. If we are comforted, it is to bring you comfort from the experience of endurance while you go through the same sufferings that we also suffer. ⁷ Our hope for you is certain, because we know that as you are partners in suffering, so also you are partners in comfort.

Are you struggling today? Do you need a mighty Paraclete to come along side of you and give you strength? Do you know someone who is suffering? Can you offer comfort to them in the name of Jesus? Even just holding a door open to someone who is struggling can make a big difference.

Come on Through by Michelle Robertson